記得大學一堂選修課上。教授面帶微笑,走進教室,對我們說:“我受一家機構委託,來做一項問卷調查,請同學們幫個忙。”一聽這話,教室裡輕微的一陣議論開了,大學課堂本來枯燥,這下好玩多了。                                                                                                               
問卷表發下來,一看,只有兩道題。                                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                  
第一題:他很愛她。她細細的瓜子臉,彎彎的娥眉,面色白皙,美麗動人。可是有一天,她不幸遇上了車禍,痊愈後,臉上留下幾道大大的醜陋疤痕。你覺得,他會一如既往地愛她嗎?
 
A、他一定會 B、他一定不會 C、他可能會                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                  
第二題:她很愛他。他是商界的精英,儒雅沈穩,敢打敢拼。忽然有一天,他破產了。你覺得,她還會像以前一樣愛他嗎?                                     
                                                                                                                                                  
A、她一定會 B、她一定不會 C、她可能會
 
一會兒,我們就做好了。問卷收上來,教授一統計,發現:第一題有10%的同學選A,10%的同學選B,80%的同學選C。第二題呢,30%的同學選了A,30%的同學選B,40%的同學選C。                                                                                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                  
“看來,美女毀容比男人破產,更讓人不能容忍啊。”教授笑了,“做這兩題時,潛意識裡,你們是不是把他和她當成了戀人關係?”                                 
                                                                                                                                                  
“是啊。”我們答得很整齊。                                                                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                  
“可是,題目本身並沒有說他和她是戀人關係啊?”教授似有深意地看著大家,“現在,我們來假設一下,如果,第一題中的 ‘他’是‘她’的父親,第二題中的‘她’是‘他’的母親。讓你把這兩道題重新做一遍,你還會堅持原來的選擇嗎?”
 
 
問卷再次發到我們的手中,教室裡忽然變得非常寧靜,一張張年青的面龐變得凝重而深沈。幾分鐘後,問卷收了上來,教授再一統計,兩道題,我們都100%地選了A。  
                                                                                                                                                  
                                                                                                                                                 
教授的語調深沈而動情:“這個世界上,有一種愛,亙古綿長,無私無求;不因季節更替。不因名利浮沈,這就是父母的愛啊!”                                  
善待自己的父母,他們永遠是最愛你們的。

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